Self Identity

Problem

In the world of STEM, self-acceptance is really important. Imposter syndrome is really prevalent and students get suffocated seeing the top scorer in the class absolutely crushing everyone and no matter how they study, they can’t understand the materials. I have been there, and I believe everyone has been there, except if you are Terrence Tao (or you think you are the next prodigy).

While everyone has moments of sudden Eureka, everyone feels stupid sometimes for missing out the obvious, or just overlooking some really simple facts.

Solution

I believe the purpose of studying STEM is pure enjoyment. At least, I chose Physics (specifically, Mathematical Physics) simply because I want to understand the universe. As long as you like what you are doing, there is no point comparing yourself to others?

While I still emphasize the importance of interacting with smart classmates (simply to learn from their thinking process), never compete with them (after all learning is not about competition) . I’ve heard my friend saying:

人比人比死人

Comparision with others can cause death!

Further Thoughts

A chinese quote from «神雕俠侶»:

｢你說我這是個騙人的玩意，那不錯，武功之中，十成中九成是騙人的玩意兒，只要能把高手騙到，那就是勝了。｣

We tend to overrate others and underrate yourself. Ask you friend how they think of you and you may realize you are better than who you think you are!